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Read the Client's Agreement for more information.
Q. Is there any "happy ending"? A. No. Q. Do I need to stay dressed at all times? A. Yes. |
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Q. What can I wear?
A. Wear something comfortable. Pyjamas are a good example. During a normal cuddling session, we wear pants and a shirt. During a 'skin-to-skin' cuddling session, we wear shorts while women also wear a top. Thin clothes are better to feel the touch.
Q. Why are there rules?
A. The rules are there to permit us to feel safe and comfortable, which are essential for you to have fun.
Q. Can we meet before we cuddle?
A. You can decide to talk to me first! I usually start to cuddle after 3-5 minutes of explanation, since people can feel anxious when they don't know what to expect. However, we start cuddling when you are ready!
Q. What if I become aroused during the cuddling session?
A. Don't worry, it happens! Although sexual activity is not permitted, arousal is normal and should not make anyone feel uncomfortable. However, getting aroused on purpose will trigger a warning (described in the Client's Agreement).
Q. Can I talk during the cuddling session?
A. Yes, talking or not is completely up to you. Silence will allow you to focus on my touch and fully appreciate the cuddling session and talking may be useful for support.
Q. Is this service confidential?
A. Your privacy is extremely important to me. What you say in your session and your identity stay confidential unless safety is compromised. You can ask me that the roommates are not present when you come or leave.
Q. Are cuddling sessions therapy?
A. You will most probably feel better psychologically and physically. Cuddling and being comforted are both soothing. You can read the Benefits page. However, they are not meant to resolve major problems. To address long-term problems, you may prefer consulting a therapist.
Q. Do I have to tip?
A. Tips are more than welcomed. Cuddling is a service more engaging than going to a restaurant. However, I prefer another session with you or a good referral over tips!
Q. Is anyone welcome to become a client?
A. Yes! I am opened to cuddle with all genders and sexual orientation.
Q. What if I did not have the time to take a shower?
A. We ask that you shower and brush your teeth before the appointment. If you did not have the time to take a shower, you can take it at my place. Because I may have another client scheduled, this time counts as part of your cuddling session. I also ask that you avoid perfume and cologne.
Q. Can I be intoxicated?
A. You can be if you behave yourself!! :-) For example, the experience can be very pleasant for people on MDMA or cannabis.
Q. How did you set the prices?
A. Cuddling is a demanding service. It is more intimate than a massage. Comforting is taxing emotionally. While it is true that massage therapists or psychologists go through university to get their skills, I need to naturally possess the rare skills of being able to genuinely care for all human beings and being able to transmit this affection.
Q. May I ask the cuddler out on a date?
A. You may ask once. However, asking more than once can put me in a difficult situation.
Q. Do you have any training?
A. I'm the pioneer in cuddling in Canada. I gave training which includes: 1. ethics and professionalism, 2. cuddling skills 3. dealing with people in crisis and self-defense.
For information about how the Cuddlery is legal, confidential and safe.
A. Wear something comfortable. Pyjamas are a good example. During a normal cuddling session, we wear pants and a shirt. During a 'skin-to-skin' cuddling session, we wear shorts while women also wear a top. Thin clothes are better to feel the touch.
Q. Why are there rules?
A. The rules are there to permit us to feel safe and comfortable, which are essential for you to have fun.
Q. Can we meet before we cuddle?
A. You can decide to talk to me first! I usually start to cuddle after 3-5 minutes of explanation, since people can feel anxious when they don't know what to expect. However, we start cuddling when you are ready!
Q. What if I become aroused during the cuddling session?
A. Don't worry, it happens! Although sexual activity is not permitted, arousal is normal and should not make anyone feel uncomfortable. However, getting aroused on purpose will trigger a warning (described in the Client's Agreement).
Q. Can I talk during the cuddling session?
A. Yes, talking or not is completely up to you. Silence will allow you to focus on my touch and fully appreciate the cuddling session and talking may be useful for support.
Q. Is this service confidential?
A. Your privacy is extremely important to me. What you say in your session and your identity stay confidential unless safety is compromised. You can ask me that the roommates are not present when you come or leave.
Q. Are cuddling sessions therapy?
A. You will most probably feel better psychologically and physically. Cuddling and being comforted are both soothing. You can read the Benefits page. However, they are not meant to resolve major problems. To address long-term problems, you may prefer consulting a therapist.
Q. Do I have to tip?
A. Tips are more than welcomed. Cuddling is a service more engaging than going to a restaurant. However, I prefer another session with you or a good referral over tips!
Q. Is anyone welcome to become a client?
A. Yes! I am opened to cuddle with all genders and sexual orientation.
Q. What if I did not have the time to take a shower?
A. We ask that you shower and brush your teeth before the appointment. If you did not have the time to take a shower, you can take it at my place. Because I may have another client scheduled, this time counts as part of your cuddling session. I also ask that you avoid perfume and cologne.
Q. Can I be intoxicated?
A. You can be if you behave yourself!! :-) For example, the experience can be very pleasant for people on MDMA or cannabis.
Q. How did you set the prices?
A. Cuddling is a demanding service. It is more intimate than a massage. Comforting is taxing emotionally. While it is true that massage therapists or psychologists go through university to get their skills, I need to naturally possess the rare skills of being able to genuinely care for all human beings and being able to transmit this affection.
Q. May I ask the cuddler out on a date?
A. You may ask once. However, asking more than once can put me in a difficult situation.
Q. Do you have any training?
A. I'm the pioneer in cuddling in Canada. I gave training which includes: 1. ethics and professionalism, 2. cuddling skills 3. dealing with people in crisis and self-defense.
For information about how the Cuddlery is legal, confidential and safe.